What I See When I Photograph Mothers | A List
April 13, 2026
My job as a motherhood and family photographer requires presence and observation. It’s an honor getting to witness the lives of so many other families and mothers. Here are just a few things that I have noticed, tried to apply to my own life, and use as inspiration when I create photos.
- I see them breaking generational curses, big and small.
- Being cherished by her children and husband.
- Joy can coincide with a diverse range of emotions.
- Life is too short not to be silly sometimes.
- The best place for dancing is probably the kitchen.
- A bad moment doesn’t equal a bad day.
- Hard does not equal bad.
- Devotion and perseverance.
- Learning, growing, becoming.
- A safe place for her children to land.
- Someone who sees and loves her children for who they are.
- Creativity and intention behind making a comfortable space for her children to live in. Designing a life that can be well-lived.
- Strength. Never not showing up.
- The constant-ness of care.
- Revival by small gestures. A home-cooked meal dropped off at the door. An iced coffee. A walk around the neighborhood.
- She is often held by her husband, sister, mother, or friend. Maybe not all at once or in grand ways, but they’re there.
- Home-management. Things don’t go smoothly all on their own.
- Life is probably easier outside.
- Softness, but also boldness.
- Sacrifice.
- Fighting for her own hobbies and outlets. It can be easy to give those up, but they’re worth pursuing even in the margins of motherhood.
- Relaxing into the pace of living slower and making the most of it.